How to Wear Flat Shoes with Confidence

Many of my clients ask me how to style flat shoes, either because they can’t wear heels or simply don’t want to.

Their biggest concerns are:

  • Will flats make my outfit look less polished?

  • How do I make proportions work without heels?

  • What styles of flats feel modern and chic?

The truth is, you can absolutely wear flats with confidence—it’s just about styling them in a way that feels intentional.

Whether you're a devoted flat-shoe lover or just looking for ways to make them work better in your wardrobe, here are some styling ideas to help you feel polished and put together.

Choose Structured Silhouettes

Flats pair beautifully with tailored pieces. To keep your outfit looking polished, try:

  • Cropped trousers or structured jeans

  • A well-fitted blazer or a sleek coat

  • A structured handbag for balance

These elements help refine your outfit, preventing flats from making the overall look feel too casual.

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Play with Proportions

Since heels naturally elongate the legs, wearing flats might make proportions feel different. To create balance in your outfit, try:

  • Midi skirts & dresses – Flats work well with these lengths, especially when paired with a defined waist or sleek top.

  • Wide-leg pants – Go for a slightly cropped style to show some ankle, which keeps the look modern.

  • Ankle-length jeans & trousers – These show a bit of skin, making the look light and intentional.

Choose Modern Flat Styles

If you’re worried about flats looking outdated, focus on current styles that feel elevated:

  • Loafers – Timeless and chic, perfect for both casual and professional outfits.

  • Ballet flats – Opt for modern versions with a sleek, pointed toe or a minimalist shape.

  • Minimalist sneakers – Great for effortless, polished looks without feeling too sporty.

  • Boat shoes – A polished yet relaxed option, ideal for casual and smart-casual looks.

  • Fisherman sandals – A trendy, structured flat that adds interest and edge to any outfit.

These styles will make sure your flats feel fresh and fashion-forward.

Pay Attention to Details (If That’s Your Style!)

If you like adding a bit of personality to your shoes, you can choose flats with:

  • Interesting textures – Suede, patent leather, or woven materials can elevate a simple outfit.

  • Small embellishments – A metallic accent, a buckle, or a delicate strap can add polish.

Of course, if you prefer sleek and minimal styles, simple, well-made flats in classic colors can be just as chic!

Wear Them with Confidence!

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At the end of the day, how you feel in your outfit matters the most. Flats can be just as chic and elegant as heels—it’s all about owning your style and experimenting with what works for you.

Do you wear flats often? What’s your go-to way to style them? Let me know in the comments!

Need help making your wardrobe work for you?

If you’d like personalized outfit ideas, book a Styling Hour with me, and we can put together flattering, confidence-boosting looks—with or without heels! 


Hi, I’m Marcia Crivorot, a Personal Stylist based in NY. I send newsletters with style tips, brands to know, and products twice a month. Unlock previous editions of my newsletters and receive my emails firsthand by subscribing.

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